Everyone has his/her own past,
but, how do you give means to the PAST?
Look at it with negative attitude of unpleasant? shame? guilt?
or with possitive attitude of lessons, experiences, gains, and thanks?
It depends on one's own wisdom and philosophy of life.
How do I mean PAST?
In my life, I look at my past with both negative and possitive attitude.
Something happened before,everytime when I touch the memory,
Oh...that really hurts....
It's already happened and I can't make it up right now.
so I have to face it with courage, take lessons from it, and, be mercy.
let the past be the past, not just past it with no gains.
So....will you talk about your past with your boy/girl firend
even if a big mistake you've made before?
It's hard.....
Once you decide to tell him/her,
that means you trust him/her,
and you have confidence in understanding him/her deeply .
Most important of all, you should follow your heart.
If you are the one who always hide, you can stay hiding,
or you will feel pressured in revealing.
But, If you are the one who always eager to reveal his/her naked heart,
you'd better tell him/her,
or you will be somebody else, not you yourself.
So.... It's me, a women with a simple heart , who reveals all the time.
My heart doesn't like to wear clothes of secrets.
It's naked .
(Though it's dangerous....)
but, how do you give means to the PAST?
Look at it with negative attitude of unpleasant? shame? guilt?
or with possitive attitude of lessons, experiences, gains, and thanks?
It depends on one's own wisdom and philosophy of life.
How do I mean PAST?
In my life, I look at my past with both negative and possitive attitude.
Something happened before,everytime when I touch the memory,
Oh...that really hurts....
It's already happened and I can't make it up right now.
so I have to face it with courage, take lessons from it, and, be mercy.
let the past be the past, not just past it with no gains.
So....will you talk about your past with your boy/girl firend
even if a big mistake you've made before?
It's hard.....
Once you decide to tell him/her,
that means you trust him/her,
and you have confidence in understanding him/her deeply .
Most important of all, you should follow your heart.
If you are the one who always hide, you can stay hiding,
or you will feel pressured in revealing.
But, If you are the one who always eager to reveal his/her naked heart,
you'd better tell him/her,
or you will be somebody else, not you yourself.
So.... It's me, a women with a simple heart , who reveals all the time.
My heart doesn't like to wear clothes of secrets.
It's naked .
(Though it's dangerous....)
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